Father’s Day…again!

It’s been about 17 years since I’ve been able to face up to father’s day. That was about the time my father suffered a major stroke (yes, on Father’s Day) and fell into a downward spiral that dragged out for over a year and a half until he died...

Stengthening Up

This morning I slept in (oh gloriousness!) which I really needed. Then I got up and strengthened myself. Life is a constant work-in-progress, something that isn’t news to any of us I suppose. But I spent so many years coasting, getting by, not realizing that I...

Persuasion

What we tell ourselves is our own persuasion. It’s the stuff we repeat over and over in the dark, lying in bed, making the decision that tomorrow will be different. Sometimes it works, but sometimes it doesn’t. I’m at the point where I have to admit...

Don’t eat at your desk

OMG I really need to break this habit of eating at my work desk. I think this is a hangover from the pre-divorce days. I pretty much holed up in my bedroom and lived there. Husband and I still lived together through the whole thing, just with separate bedrooms, and...